Hi, lovelies. How are you all doing today on this lovely day? I'm doing alright, keeping, keeping it on as per usual. I got up and was watching a couple on YouTube. I thought they were cute, and I was, of course, relating to some of their content. As some of you may know, I'm currently in a relationship. I have decided to be somewhat elusive about who my partner is until I know he is here to stay. As I mentioned in the past, I was seeing someone, but it didn't work out. Needless to say, I then regretted putting him on my frantastic blog. The guy I'm seeing, we met 4 years ago. Next month, on the 24th, will make it one year since we got back together. The first time we broke up, we only dated for one month, then we went our separate ways. Last year, on August 24th, we saw each other again and decided to give our imperfect relationship a second chance. Lovelies, are you single, or are you currently in a relationship? We all know relationships take hard work and dedication. Nonetheless, when is it ok to know when to let go and start all over again?
Recently, my partner and I encountered a personal situation. He called, and I made the decision to believe in him and forgive him. Till this very moment, we have never been in a fight, nor do I want to. I'm all about maintaining peace and resolving conflicts. I have something essential to attend to, and he has been patiently waiting. Lovelies, with age, I have come to realize the key to a good relationship is a lot of compromising. You are no longer single; you have decided to share your life with someone else. You have to compromise some of your old ways for love. Now, I'm not saying to become someone you're not just to please your significant other. I believe that, truly, madly, deeply, we're learning to share and appreciate one another. If the love of your life loves you, then he will accept you just as you are. When there is no love or trust, and you hardly communicate with one another, then it is time to let go. Breakups are never easy. Throughout my life, I have gotten my heart broken many times. If you are currently going through a breakup, know that things will get better. Ya, this too shall pass.
Ya, everything passes through time, our greatest resource. The reason I wanted to share this post, sweet Lovelies, is that I don't believe many of us understand how much a healthy relationship is tied to our very own well-being. For instance, when I was contemplating ending my relationship out of fear of getting hurt, my heart was truly madly deeply broken. I didn't want to hurt him and cause any stress. Lovelies, it's always better to be single if your significant other doesn't make you a better version of yourself. If your babe constantly puts you down, leave him for your own mental health. Never let a man or woman put their hands on you, no matter what. A relationship is an addition to your life, not a liability. Yes, as I head to my perfectly imperfect 4o's. I'm grateful to have found someone to share my life with. Although I'm very much scared of getting hurt again.
Nevertheless, taking chances is all part of falling in love. Moreover, there is genuinely nothing more worthwhile than finally finding the love of your life. After all, no one wants to die alone. Which is why dating apps are on the rise. I encourage you, Lovelies, to never give up on finding true love. Keep searching and remain open-minded. Just remember to be careful about whom you give your heart to. Take care and be well, ya.
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